WHAT DO YOU DESERVE?

We all think we deserve better in life. We want the finest things. We want to live in a nice house, drive nice cars, eat in the best of restaurants, have the best of friends and so on. It's no different when it comes to relationships. We want to be with the best person, who does everything to make us happy. Someone who will never hurt us intentionally and love us no matter what right? Do you think you deserve something like that though? Are you doing all you should to ensure you get that tailor made relationship you dream of?

Sometimes, people end up in relationships that they really shouldn't be in. The worse thing about it is that the stay. For the sake of what, i don't know. All i know is that, if you think its not for you, you shouldn't be there because, you being there is your way of saying it's what you deserve.

Take the woman who is so 'in love' with her man that she decides to over look all his flaws in order to make it work. I mean, that is all well and good but, at what cost though?Would you deliberately make yourself unhappy for the sake of making something work? How are you going to make something that makes you unhappy work? Won't you be even more unhappy if it works that way? Is that what you deserve? My my! Too many questions huh? 


If you are in a situation where you feel like you have lost yourself completely and have no way of going back, then you have accepted that you deserve the scraps that you are getting. Don't get m,e wrong, every relationship has it's problems but, there are problems and there are PROBLEMS. I have meet and interacted with people that are so clearly unhappy but don't want to leave because 'it's hard to find a good man these days'!!! errrr... if you were with a good man, you would be happy surely! I say to them, they deserve what they are getting because, they are not doing anything to change a bad situation. Yes it's true that a good man is hard to find these days and yes it's true that letting go of something can be next to impossible sometimes but, what about what is awaiting in your future? The only way you can find out is if you tell yourself that you deserve better and act on it.