Money Or Looks????

this is a topic that has always been important to me and i know most people wonder about this as well. i am a very materialistic woman... (don't get me wrong, let me explain first) 

i mean, i look good, no doubt about that!! i place a lot of stock in how a person looks and carries themselves. at the same time, i love MONEY!! i mean, who doesn't? look at how people wake up early in the morning, in winter and travel great distances just to make some money. when it comes to relationships though, there is a conflict. the thing is, i am not waking up everyday at 6:30 the morning to go to work only to end up with a broke man. at the same time, i am not going to be with someone just because of what is in his wallet or credit card... even though that helps. you see the conflict here?

the worst bit though, is when we mix looks with money. i mean, i know a lot of women who do not mind what a man looks like as long as they are paying up.(the classic gold digger). there is also the type of woman who will mix the the two. (date a man who has both looks and money) and the last one is the one or the other kinda gal!! i wonder what category you will place yourself in. 
as far as i am concerned, i am a bit of the second and third one. definitely not the first. i mean, i do not care how much money you have, if you look like SHAKA ZULU, its a deal breaker for me!  as much as i don't like broke men, i will not go out with someone i will not feel proud walking next to. 


if it comes down to it, i will most likely go with the good looking 20 something year old who is starting out in life just like me than be with the 30something with the flashy cars and platinum credit cards who's only dream is to spoil me rotten but looks like errr.... someone not so good looking!. so what if the guy i want because of the looks is broke, arrogant and everything my mum warned me against? my only concern at that point will be how good he will look walking next to me, how many heads will turn to watch us when we walk past as opposed to the other one. i mean sure, people will look at his flashy car and go like wow!! but then as soon as we get out of the car, the first thing in everyone's head will be like 'you know she is with him for the money'!!! i know that is how i will think so, i will not be a hypocrite and pretend others will think good thoughts.


my ideal man though will have to have both. especially the looks. i always lean more towards the looks. call me crazy, i mean money is good. (the best things in life are expensive. just go into selfridges!!) but at the same time, i want to look good with my expensive shopping bags and the good looking man who paid for the stuff in the bags... see, i told you i was materialistic!!!